How To Be A Great Third In A Threesome

Being the third person in a threesome is something of a dream to many people – but dreams can come true. There are a few routes to achieving a fab, drama-free threesome, but if you’re not in a relationship with a trusted partner and on the lookout for a third, then maybe you’re the third a couple is looking for! Check out our three-step guide how to be a great third in a threesome.

1. Know Your Dating App Terminology

If you’re looking at being the third person in a threesome, that means you’re a unicorn. Flattering, huh? The term unicorn comes from the relative difficulty couples find looking for a chill third person to complete their threesome – so if this is you, you’re in demand! Many unicorns use a unicorn emoji somewhere in their profile as a shorthand to let people know what they’re looking for, but it’s a good idea to be specific about what you want. That brings us to our next section…  

2. Be Clear About What You’re Looking For

Dating profiles are just a little advertisement for what kind of date you are and what you’re looking for – so make sure yours contains the right information. You don’t need to be too formal or detailed – just say that you’re up for being a third or finding a hot couple to meet for a drink and maybe more. It can also be useful to specify the gender combination of the couple you’re looking for if that makes a difference to you – a male/female couple (MF) and so on. You may wish to state your sexuality and if this is your first time and if you want to get to know each other a little before

3. Remember To Be True To Yourself

As a unicorn, you’re rare, you’re special – magical even! Remember to treat yourself as such! Being the third person in a threesome can be a fun way to explore your sexuality, but be patient with it. The first couple you meet may not be a good match, and it’s worth waiting to find people you click with rather than hurry through the motions just to “tick off” life experiences or add to your bucket list. Using more frank, open hook-up platforms like Feeld or Tinder can make things easier, but be prepared that people can be super flaky on dating apps – another reason to exercise patience!  

Hopefully this guide on how to be a great third in a threesome is helpful to you – check out more on the topic if you like! Remember to approach sexual encounters of any kind with the same respect for the consent and wellbeing of everyone involved. Happy hunting, unicorns!  

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