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Long, lazy afternoons turn into warm evenings. Days off melt into weekend getaways. Summer is the perfect season to slow down, switch off, and reconnect with yourself.
Whether you’re lounging by the pool, enjoying a staycation, or winding down after a day in the sun, your solo pleasure routine deserves a seasonal refresh too. We teamed up with our team of sexologists to give your classic pleasure guide a summery makeover, with fresh ideas to help you discover new sensations all season long.
1. Follow your curiosity
Summer is all about trying something new. Maybe that’s a new destination… or maybe it’s a new way to experience pleasure. Stay open-minded – after all, you never know what might become your new favourite sensation until you give it a try.
2. Get to know your body
Think of this as your personal sightseeing tour. Take time to explore your body without rushing, paying special attention to areas that feel especially pleasurable. The more familiar you become with your anatomy, the easier it is to discover what truly feels good.
3. Forget the finish line
Not every summer day needs a packed itinerary (and not every solo session needs an orgasm). Instead of chasing the destination, enjoy the journey. The less pressure you put on yourself, the more pleasure you’re likely to experience.
4. Create your own summer sanctuary
Transform an everyday moment into a mini escape. Open the windows, put on your favourite summer playlist, light a candle, or enjoy the golden evening light. A relaxed atmosphere helps your body relax too.
5. Take it poolside… or bath-side
If your toy is waterproof, why keep all the fun in the bedroom? A cooling shower after a hot day or a long soak in the bath can add a whole new dimension to your pleasure routine.
6. Change your scenery
If your bed has become a little too familiar, switch things up. Try the sofa, a comfy chair, your hotel room on holiday, or even your morning shower. A new setting can make familiar sensations feel exciting again.
7. Wake up your whole body
Pleasure doesn’t start at the clitoris. Explore your neck, inner thighs, chest, stomach, or scalp. Sometimes the most surprising erogenous zones are the ones you’ve never paid much attention to.
8. Give your imagination a holiday
Summer reading doesn’t have to stop at the beach novel. Erotic stories, audio erotica, or simply indulging in your own fantasies can help set the mood and awaken your biggest erogenous zone: your mind.
9. Pack pleasure in your suitcase
Heading away? Don’t forget your favourite travel companion. A compact, waterproof toy takes up far less room than an extra pair of sandals… and promises a lot more excitement.
10. Leave shame behind
Just like your winter coat, leave shame at home this summer. Solo pleasure is a healthy, normal part of wellbeing, and making time for yourself is something worth celebrating—not hiding.