Sex toy guide: How to find your favorite toy

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Many women still have little experience with sex toys. Many are curious, of course, and would like to try. But the world of sex toys and vibrators is dizzyingly diverse and colorful, and it can be hard to know where to begin. That’s why our sex toy guide is here to help.

We have pared down the competition and left only the toys you need to know about. So read on to find out which sex toy is the right one for you.

Dildo: For the Advanced

Vibrators and dildos are often used in the same sentence, but there’s a crucial difference between the two. Although both resemble the male genital organ, only one moves of its own accord, and you guessed it, it’s not the dildo. In other words, dildos require more input from the user than a vibrator, but with this comes increased control. If it’s your first time using a dildo, it’s recommended to use a lubricant for easier and pain-free insertion. Dildos are now available in a wide variety of materials, from silicon and glass to stainless steel, and each has its own special characteristics. Bear in mind though, if you’re already having trouble achieving a climax vaginally, the dildo may not be the right toy for you. It’s a toy for the more advanced masturbators.

Vibrators: The Classic

Vibrators are the classic sex toy. They come in a conventional phallus shape and often include an array of vibrational settings and programs. The higher the price the less noise they make and the more stimulation they provide. But don’t assume that just because they vibrate on their own you don’t need to do anything. Like dildos, vibrators still require user input to get the best results.

Clitoral Stimulator: A Guaranteed Orgasm

It’s no secret that most women climax predominantly through stimulation of the clitoris. Indeed, multiple studies have confirmed this. For those just starting out, clitoral stimulators are often preferable as they tend to result in a great climax in less time. Once again, quality is key. The Womanizer products incorporate the revolutionary Pleasure Air™ Technology, which puts the clitoris at the center of female pleasure. Whether “Classic”, “Premium” or “Starlet” – the Womanizer fully encloses the clitoris and softly sucks and massages it via gentle air vibrations. In addition, the intensity levels are perfectly balanced.

Penis Rings: Longer, Wider, Harder

Many men in heterosexual relationships still have reservations about sex toys. But a revolution is slowly taking place. And even hetero couples now recognize the added value of sex toys, especially in long-term relationships where they can bring a breath of fresh air.

For example, vibrating penis rings. The ring creates slight blood congestion, which increases stamina. However, avoid using the penis ring for more than 30 minutes at a time. The gentle vibrators stimulate both the shaft and clitoris during sexual intercourse, which ensures pleasure for everyone involved!

Couple Vibrators: Fun for Both of You

For a long time, couples were neglected in the sex toy industry. It sounds strange, but toys were apparently long regarded as an upgrade solely for masturbation. The Canadian brand We-Vibe proved with the first pair vibrator that vibrators for couples can be at least as successful as classic vibrators for women. There are now a number of couple vibrators. They all have one thing in common: they can be worn during sex and stimulate both his and her erogenous zones. Even though the range is large, you should pay particular attention to quality. Ideally the products should never interfere with sexual intercourse, but instead be a support. So pay attention to shape, handling and workmanship when you buy.

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Womanizer STARLET

For beginners, the small clitoral stimulator “Starlet” is especially ideal. It’s simple to operate and the four intensity levels are more than enough for newbies to reach a great climax.

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We-Vibe Verge

The We-Vibe Verge is super stretchy and therefore incredibly comfortable to wear. The unique shape of the ring makes the Verge so versatile. During solo sex, the toy can be worn to stimulate the man’s sensitive perineum, while it’s perfect for partners too. The tip can be turned around to stimulate the woman’s clitoris.

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We-Vibe Sync

It’s one of the best toys for couples ever: The We-Vibe Sync. With its C-shaped design, the toy can easily be inserted into the woman and remains comfortable in any position. Meanwhile the vibrations from this compact toy stimulate both his and her hotspots. And best of all, the We-Vibe Sync can be used with the updated We-Connect App.

From a distance or from across the room, using the app to control the toy means it’s perfect for foreplay and for long-distance relationships.

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Womanizer PREMIUM

Those who look for the best of the best will love the Womanizer Premium. With 12 intensity levels and an autopilot mode, this toy surpasses anything you’ve ever seen before. The most ingenious part? As soon as the function is activated, stimulation and intensity are varied randomly. It’s like having a new lover every time. And thanks to Smart Silence Technology, discretion is never an issue.

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Womanizer DUO

The DUO is perfect for those who enjoy both vaginal stimulation AND being pampered by a clitoral stimulator. Whilst the clitoris is gently sucked and massaged, the internal vibrator is ergonomically shaped so that your G-spot is taken care of too.

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Frieda worked as a freelance journalist for over 10 years: She used to write about Easter recipes and style icons, about human metabolism and Michelin-rated restaurants. In short: about everything, except for sex. And for a good reason. Frieda always considered herself to be an average sexual person for all those years. Until a breakup persuaded her to stop taking the pill, which she had been on for 14 years. It was then, at the age of 28, that she finally discovered her wonderful sexuality and found her true, unique and hungry libido. Ever since, she has not only practiced a new sexuality. She writes and speaks about it too. And has never been as fulfilled as she is today!