Ready, set, squirt! Read this simple, step-by-step guide on how to make your partner squirt.
What is squirting?
Female ejaculation is a unique experience. For people with vulvas, sometimes the intensity of stimulation in the right spots during intercourse can lead to a release of fluid – known as squirting.
While it might be embarrassing in the moment or something you didn't expect to happen, squirting is completely natural and nothing to feel shame or worry over.
What is a squirting orgasm?
So why doesn't squirting happen every time you orgasm? What is the special set of circumstances that mean it only happens sometimes? Essentially, it boils down to the right stimulation at the right time – and that means the G-spot especially.
By enjoying some solo exploration, you can get to know your body and find the exact spots which make you tick. The G-spot is an important part of enjoying a squirting orgasm, so using a hook "come hither" motion with your fingers can stimulate these sensitive nerves well. Alternatively, you might prefer a shaped dildo or internal vibrator toy to get you going. It all comes down to exploration!
What happens in female ejaculation?
Thicker and a little different in color to the standard moisture that accumulates during sex, female ejaculate can include similar proteins and components as male semen! There are also small amounts of urea and creatine, which are also found in urine but do not mean that squirting is anything like pee.
The ejaculate is actually produced from particular glands that are found in the walls of the vagina, around the urethra. Here the glands can release fluid when stimulated in the right way, which results in squirting.
Does female squirting happen on demand?
It depends – for a lot of people, squirting just happens unexpectedly. However, others have worked out ways in which they can focus stimulation on both the G-spot and clitoris in a way that creates a blended orgasm, which often leads to squirting for some people.
Realistically, there's no fixed recipe but if you work on getting to know your own body and finding out what works for you, it's likely you'll be able to squirt more regularly.
