The Best Gay Sex Toys To Get Your Rocks Off

Although it can be fun to make the trip to your local sex shop, there is a huge selection of awesome gay sex toys to be found online. So many, in fact, it can be daunting: how are you meant to buy gay sex toys online when there are a gajillion options? We narrowed it down to a few different models of male sex toys that offer very different sensations, from strokers to anal play.  

Sex toys for gay men

We have a bunch of recommendations for sex toys for gay men, including anal plugs, toys for prostate stimulation, male masturbators and penis rings. Gay sex with toys can add another dimension to your sex life, such as sending vibrations to the prostate or prolonging erection with a cock ring. Check out these high-quality, body-safe gay couple sex toys.

Arcwave Ion Pleasure Air stroker

This one’s a game changer, boys. Arcwave ion claims to be “The Closest Thing to a Female Orgasm for Men” and it’s no idle boast. The science says that the clitoris contains Pacinian pleasure receptors – and these sensitive sensors also exist on the penis, in the frenulum (you may know this as the banjo string, where the head joins the shaft). Arcwave uses Pleasure Air technology so it’s not a vibrator – instead, the soft silicone head creates amazing pulsations and suction movements on the frenulum. It’s… well, you gotta try it.

The design is sleek – a smooth silicone tube and charger unit that looks like some hi-tech speaker system – so it’s a lot nicer to look at than other strokers on the market, which often look like giant cartoon buttholes. Fine if you’re into that, but there’s something pleasing about Arcwave ion’s classier aesthetic.

We-Vibe Verge: Vibrating cock ring

Verge is a specially shaped penis ring. It does everything a cock ring should do – gives a longer-lasting, fuller erection, enhancing orgasm – but it has a lil something extra. Verge has added shape to rest on the perineum (you may know it as the taint) during sex, sending delicious vibrations into this sensitive spot. The vibrations can also be felt by your partner during penetration, meaning that there’s something for everybody. Slip Verge on before you’re aroused, applying a little lube for a smooth fit. The high quality silicone feels great on the skin.  

Another cool thing about Verge is that it’s app-enabled, meaning that you can download the free We-Connect app to your smartphone and control the vibrations from there with a tap of the screen, rather than fiddling around with a slippery toy in the heat of the action. The app lets you cycle easily through different settings or even customize your own vibrations by setting your We-Vibe toy to music. Choose some smooth sexy grooves or have a laugh as your cock ring buzzes along to Mambo No. 5.

We-Vibe Ditto: the king of anal plugs

It does what it says on the tin but in the best way! We-Vibe Ditto is a classic butt plug, coated in high quality silicone for great skin-feel, smooth to the touch and simple to slip in. Control the vibrations with the easy touch-button controls or the app.  

We-Vibe Vector: Vibrating prostate & perineum massager

If you already have a vibrating butt plug and are looking for something a little different, try We-Vibe Vector – a similar model with an extra shape that massages the perineum (the taint) for hands free fun. The internal arm is specially designed to stimulate the prostate with vibrations that range from constant to intermittent, soft to intense. Wear during penetration, solo play or partnered sex for a little something extra. Vector is also app-enabled for added fun.  

Pjur Lube: Silky water-based lube

If you’re splashing out on high-end, top quality sex toys, you gotta treat them with a little love. The right lube can go a long way to enhancing your fun, and pjur produce some really great options. Remember: silicone toys must be used with a water-based lube, so try pjur AQUA for slippy slidy foreplay, or pjur BACK DOOR for more intense anal play.