O*Thoughts

It’s the stuff of fantasies but our author Nadia Bokody found that actually having sex with a stranger at a hotel had surprising benefits. Find out more….

Ever since I was a child, I’ve been called a cry-baby. And for the longest time, I thought it was an insult. But I’ve come to appreciate my sensitive side.

More power to you! Masturbation is the key to having better sex. For O*Diaries, sex blogger Tina Molin from Happy Vagina shares her best tips on masturbation and self-love.

KlitClique write rap that is feminist and full of humor. Their first album “Schlecht im Bett, gut um Rap” (“Bad in bed, good in rap”) is an answer to silly pick-ups.

The hashtag #WhyIDidntReport has gone viral and adds a new – and no less shocking – chapter to the #MeToo movement. Survivors of sexual abuse have been using the hashtag to break the silence and speak up about their experiences. 

We have all experienced sexual harassment in some way or another. And ever since the whole Harvey Weinstein affair, the topic has been a constant focus in the media. Something that should only be encouraged. But sometimes there is too much of a good thing.

From Sigmund Freud to today: for centuries female sexuality has been a source of irritation for men. The confusion about “what women want” was and remains so fundamental that men have devoted whole libraries to . Because what we want is actually quite simple–if not easy.

Glorifying violence. Homophobic. Sexist. Why out of all the things in the world do I support this anti-social shit? A self-critical attempt at explanation.

At times when everything seems to be going wrong in our lives and there’s no help in sight – what should you do? Take a long bubble bath or perhaps some deep breaths? But do these small actions really magically transform the world to seem like a better place again? As if! Countless self-love tips are simply nonsense! An opinion piece.

Anyone who follows the public debate around gender will quickly notice that it is a very complex issue that brings together many different angle. The problem is a global one. Our author believes that the discussion is far from resolved.

I don’t want children – ever – but people in my surrounding apparently don’t want to accept my decision. Let’s put an end to this!

It sounds like a horror story from the Middle Ages, but in fact it’s a shocking reality of modern society. The myth surrounding the “husband stitch” (or “daddy stitch”) is not a myth at all.