What are the effects of an orgasm?
There it is! The rocket launches and your body is flooded with oxytocin. This hormone is responsible for fabulous sensations, those indescribable feelings that cannot be put into words...
Female vs male orgasm: what do they feel like?
It can be harder for women to recognize an orgasm as there is less obvious physical evidence. Additionally, media representations of orgasms are often over the top and more than a little exaggerated. If you're not recreating the diner scene from "When Harry Met Sally", then don't worry.
Do orgasms feel the same for everybody?
Orgasms can vary in intensity for everybody, so it's natural to feel a bit confused about whether you orgasmed or not sometimes.
Lucky for any of us still a bit unsure, there's a few obvious ways to know if you've experienced the Big O.
To a lot of people, enjoying an orgasm can feel like a release of pressure or tension. So if you have the feeling of climbing and climbing in a rollercoaster and finally dropping off the edge, that sounds a lot like you've had an orgasm.
Alternatively, orgasms can leave physical evidence in the form of released bodily fluids and even superficial signs like being out of breath or blushing.
The point is that orgasms are experienced differently for everybody, so it's fine to be really unsure of whether you've experienced one or not. Just spend some time exploring your body on your own to work out what feels good and whether these feelings escalate. And we have the perfect toys for that...
Is it difficult to have an orgasm?
There can be a few different issues with orgasming, including:
- never orgasming at all
- orgasming rarely
- or even experiencing pain during an orgasm
While it's not necessary to have an orgasm to enjoy being intimate, it can become an issue for many couples. Some partners can get stuck on wondering how to get female orgasms to happen. It's very common for women, who experience arousal without orgasms, to feel an ache or even a particular tension in their body. Issues with orgasms can actually affect a lot of women and there is usually a clear underlying cause.
What causes orgasm problems?
There could be a number of factors, both physical and psychological, involved with orgasm issues.Orgasm problems have been associated with a number of physical and psychological factors.
Physical factors include:
- blood issues
- hormonal issues
- nerve issues
- prescription drug side effects
Psychological factors include:
- trauma
- age
- cultural/social background
- relationship problems
- poor communication
- self-esteem issues
A common way of recognizing whether an issue is physical or psychological is assessing how long the issue has occurred. Sudden changes re often due to physical issues, while long-term issues are more like rooted in a psychological background.
Can you orgasm alone?
Of course! For some women, it's consistently easier to masturbate and orgasm than reach climax with a partner. And that's completely okay.
If you're wondering about how your orgasm and whether it can be more intense, take the time to relax and explore your body with a toy. For a lot of people there's a huge essential to enjoying a female orgasm: vibrators. Using toys and knowing your own body is a great first step to helping others understand you too.