Pressing pause on having sex while in a relationship might sound like an unfair way to pressure your partner. However, when decided mutually, it can be an effective tool to take your connection to a new level rather than act as a relationship power play. Here our expert explains why.
Sex is great. And important. It’s the foundation, glue and icing of most happy partnerships. But what happens when you’re in a long-distance relationship? When your better half lives miles away, being spontaneous is out of the question and it’s left to weekends to squeeze in everything that you had no time for during the week.
I didn’t purchase my first vibrator until I was in my 30s. Like most women, I’d been raised to believe that sex and masturbation were dirty, and typically saw my role in the bedroom as providing pleasure to my partner. My own pleasure was typically an afterthought, and, to be honest, I was usually left frustrated. The truth was, I didn’t know my body, at all…
Unlike its’ sister, the G-spot, the A-spot doesn’t get the attention it deserves. The A-spot often is confused with the G-spot, but they are actually two separate areas, that produce very different reactions. What is great about the A-spot is that it can actually be stimulated internally during anal sex, despite the myth that women feel little to no pleasure during anal. The A-spot allows women to receive orgasmic pleasure beyond the clitoris.
If we’re being honest with ourselves, most of us have had sex outside. Or, at the very least, most of us have given some thought to it. “Who hasn’t fantasized about making love under the stars? It can feel like coming back to nature,” says Lucy Rowett, a certified sex and relationships coach. There’s something dangerous and adventurous about getting it on where people might see you. You’re out of your bedroom, changing up the usual routine and exploring your sexuality in a way that society finds very taboo. Sex outside is thrilling! Well, it is summertime and the living is sexy. It’s the perfect time of year to get your booty outside to get some booty in places unknown. Here is how to have sex outdoors for your most adventurous orgasms yet!
In case you’re unsure, the term ‘sexting’ refers to a kind of text message exchange that’s a little raunchier than average. Think dick pics (the solicited kind), eggplant emojis and descriptions of sexy scenarios. But more than that: Sexting is also a powerful way to reignite your sexual intimacy in a relationship where the sex may have flatlined.
I try to keep a level head and stay humble, but when it comes to talking about my job, it’s honestly hard not to brag sometimes. After all, how many people can say they get paid to get off? At least, that was the assignment I set for myself this week. The challenge was simple: masturbate every day for a week and chronicle my experiences. The results were anything but expected. Here’s what happened…
If you’re a woman who has never had trouble achieving an orgasm, congratulations. You’re a unicorn. If you’re one of the other 99.99 percent of women, you’ve probably had at least one experience mentally beating yourself up for not being able to reach a climax during sex, which most likely culminated in frantically Googling various illnesses to find out what’s “wrong” with you.