Sex in Long-Distance Relationships: Tips and Toys to Combat the Distance


Sex is great. And important. It’s the foundation, glue and icing of most happy partnerships. But what happens when you’re in a long-distance relationship? When your better half lives miles away, being spontaneous is out of the question and it’s left to weekends to squeeze in everything that you had no time for during the week.

Sex in long-distance relationships: Can you find happiness through happenstance?

The short time spent together is usually filled with other plans, like meeting up with friends and exploring the city. There is often not that much time left for the most important matter of all. Sex in long-distance relationships can really be hard to schedule. Some people claim that weekend meet-ups keep things fresh. According to this theory, there is less everyday boredom and stress and instead more longing and passion. If only it were that easy!

When the distance becomes stifling…

This is often the exact issue. The days are counted down until you’re finally on the road towards a romantic reunion so it makes sense that all of the expectations have added up and the sex can become a little anti-climactic. Even worse, many couples begin to feel almost estranged from one another. Of course, it’s not easier with sex and long-distance as it can take a while to feel close and connected again – and by then the weekend is almost over.

What can we do to stay close to our partner?

These days we are available around the clock for each other. We can call each other 24/7, send GIFs via smartphones and constantly reassure ourselves of a relationship. But there is so much more we can do. We can try new things – whoever is thinking of classic phone sex or webcam action should realize there are even more exciting options thanks to technology! We can even have sex with each other from two different locations.

The solution for sex in long-distance relationships: net-friendly sex toys

These are often controlled by a smartphone app, with some apps now even pairing two phones together so that one person can control the other’s toy from afar. LA to New York? No problem! The professionals call this “Long-Distance Control.” So if you are in a long-distance relationship and shopping for toys, make sure to ask more about products with this feature!

Enjoy real sex from two different locations with the “We-Connect App”

An app that is perfect for this is “We-Connect.” Made by the innovative We-Vibe, this app is compatible with a number of exclusive sex toys.

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Moxie is a truly wearable device. It is placed in your underwear and provides clitoral stimulation. Whether you’re at home or on the road, you and your partner can get things going. But try to keep it out of the workplace!

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sex in der fernbeziehung sex in long-distance relationshipsNova is an exciting dual-action vibrator that simultaneously stimulates the G-spot and clitoris. This is all managed, of course, by the We-Connect app!

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Verge is a real highlight for men. During solo time, Verge can help out with a hand job or take the starring role by stimulating the base of the penis and perineum with intense vibrations. Once you’re back together in the same room, you can enjoy the Vibro cock ring as a couple’s toy.

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Sex in long-distance relationships – an interactive experience

If you both have toys that are app-friendly, you can synchronize them and remotely control each other’s. Now add the live chat mode and camera and voila: accessible sex for long-distance relationships! With We-Connect toys, you kill two birds with one stone: sex is always possible, whether you’re together or separated by miles. And you’ll never lose your sense of intimacy as you can enjoy romance 7 days a week! Who knows, in the end you might have more fun apart with your private sex toy connections than all the couples sitting beside each other on the couch every day of the week.



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