Oral Sex for Women: Why cunnilingus is so important

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While there are probably just a few men who would turn down a blowjob with a casual ‘never mind’, it’s a different story for women. Before your partner is anywhere near you intimately, most wonder “did I shave?” or even “do I smell weird?” We think it’s time to stop this, because oral sex is often the guarantee for a orgasm – and most reasons to hesitate are just in your head. Reason enough to get behind oral sex for women!

So that’s why oral sex is so important for women…

Just let yourself relax, quit thinking and have fun – that’s usually the foundation for really good sex. Unfortunately, women often have trouble switching off and enjoying themselves, especially when it comes to receiving oral sex. Sex coach Christine Janson confirms this, “Many women are quite sensitive about sex and if they get the feeling that their partner doesn’t enjoy performing oral sex, then they don’t enjoy the experience either.” The labia and clitoris are among the most sensitive of the female body’s erogenous zones. If these are gently stimulated by the lips, tongue and teeth, as well as the hands, then the clitoris will swell and, with increased arousal, an intense orgasm is on the cards. Various studies and surveys show that over 80% of women regularly reach climax during oral sex, which is much higher than orgasm rates during penetrative sex. Oral sex can therefore almost be described as a guaranteed orgasm.

How does oral sex work with women?

Licking, sucking, nibbling – when it comes to cunnilingus is allowed, whatever feels great goes. It’s helpful for the partner to already be familiar with the erogenous zones, if he intends to pamper them properly:

  • these include spots like the inner thighs, which you can nibble, kiss and lick as you approach the vagina. This results in a slow build of excitement and anticipation.
  • the clitoris is not famous as an erotic hotspot for no reason, it exists solely for female pleasure. For that reason, a lot of attention should be paid here. Important: the sensitivity of the clitoris is different for every woman, so the partner should caress and explore to find out what she likes. Some prefer gentle strokes, while others enjoy intense pressure and even using both the teeth and tongue. If you’re flying solo, you can treat your clitoris with the Womanizer Premium and quickly reach your peak.
  • the labia are especially sensitive and, along with the vagina and clitoris, included in the primary sexual organs of the biologically female body. Even though they’re often neglected, they actually deserve special attention during oral sex.
  • even the vaginal entrance and perineum can be spoiled orally, for example, the partner can push their tongue just a few inches into the vagina, where the particularly erogenous spots are found just at the opening.

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Practical tips

  • relaxation tools: sex coach Christine Janson advises women who find it hard to relax during oral sex to “practise” solo. Her tip: there are sex toys that can imitate tongue movements, with which you can enjoy the stimulation alone and then relax with your partner next time.”
  • perfect positioning: usually, the woman lies down on her back with her legs open, while the partner kneels in front and uses his mouth on her. But an alternative is the woman sitting on the partner’s face and retaining control during the fun.
  • expert tongue skills: Here enthusiasm is desired, so please do not simply lick half-heartedly. Instead alternate between the soft underside and rough top of the tongue, as well as vary the tongue movements.
  • more than the name: just because it’s called oral sex, it doesn’t mean that only lips, tongue and teeth can be used. Include the hands too and make the whole thing a bit more intense.
  • not so hard nibbles: it should go without saying, but just as a precaution: when using teeth on the most intimate parts of a woman, be careful and considerate.
  • fight for your right: He likes a regular blowjob but doesn’t often return the favor? Christine Janson advises women to be open in approaching their partner and expressing what they want. A little trick: “make it a competition by betting who can get their partner to orgasm faster.”

Close the oral sex gap: Tongue play for all!

Say goodbye to the tired cliché that oral sex is first and foremost for men. Equality is needed, which means that when he gets a blowjob, he should reciprocate. Unfortunately, some men haven’t come to terms with this concept – according to sex therapists, this usually comes down to fear of doing something wrong. So men, think about how much pleasure it gives you to turn your partner on. What are you waiting for?


Photos by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash and Tiffany Combs on Unsplash

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