Last weekend, I thought to myself: the magic of youth really lies in “the first time.” Doing something for the first time is always fresh, exciting and exhilarating. It’s always fun, because it’s unfamiliar. Do you remember your first kiss, your first driving lesson, or even your “first time?”
The older you are, the more rare these first times become. And the more routine your everyday life becomes. That’s not so bad, but every now and then, it can be nice to add a little change. When I thought about what areas of my life had potential for a little more spice, I found help completely by chance.
My friend Frederik recently got a new girlfriend. Accordingly, he is currently having a lot of sex. The other day, when he was once again boasting, I became curious. He mentioned being pampered by his girlfriend in a new way that I had never heard of before. He mentioned “tantric Lingam massage.” Could this be the chance to experience something for the first time all over again?
Lingam massage – it’s all about the penis
Frederick told me that Lingam is a Sanskrit term for the penis. It is therefore a penis massage, in and of itself. Erotic massages play a central role in the Indian teachings of Tantra. Tantric massage is intended to bring you closer to the goal of physical, mental and emotional unity.
What makes the Lingam massage particularly interesting is that an orgasm is not the focus here. It can happen, but doesn’t necessarily have to–this makes it all the more enjoyable. In addition, there are a number of “unorthodox” techniques, that I really wanted to try myself.
23 techniques for penile massage
Lingam massages include over 20 exercises to stimulate the penis. Their names alone are already intriguing. Here are my own top 4:
- The Cross-country Skier: The thumb moves from the base of the penis to the glans, all the while exerting a gentle pressure.
- The Corkscrew: This one uses both hands. One holds the testicles, while the other circles the glans.
- The Fire Maker: Just as you would in making a fire, both hands stretch out across the penis and rub gently back and forth.
- The Wring Out: With gentle movements, both hands wrap around the penis and it is “wrung out” like a wet cloth.
If you want to take a closer look at this topic, you can always find a lot of information online. For example, I discovered a poster that depicts and describes all of the techniques. There are even massage services that offer lingam massage as part of their tantric massages. Whether a man wants to entrust his most prized parts to a stranger’s hands comes down to their own personal choice.
“Keeping it fresh” is – especially during sex – an attitude that results in fun and fulfillment. My personal conclusion after “making fire” and “wringing it out” is that I like it! It is indeed possible to bring the magic of youth back. There are many exciting things waiting “out there” for you. You just have to explore a little…
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