6 Surprising benefits of mutual masturbation


Sure, playing alone is fun. But why play alone when you an invite your partner to join the fun? Mutual masturbation is one of the most beneficial activities for your relationship and your intimacy. Just check out these six little-known benefits…

#1: Show and tell 

Masturbating in front of your partner allows them to see exactly what you like and learn in a very practical, direct way, exactly how to touch you. Consider it a sexy private tutorial. 

#2: Bonding time 

Masturbating with your partner is a powerful way to intensify your intimacy and connection, by really allowing yourselves to be vulnerable in one anothers’ presence. 

#3: Foreplay fun 

Foreplay is often the first thing to fall to the wayside in long-term relationships, and introducing mutual masturbation into the mix is a great way to get it back.  

#4: Oh my orgasm 

Watching one another self-pleasure an build enormous sexual tension, leading to more intense orgasms. If that’s not a reason to mutually masturbate, then I don’t know what is!  

#5: Lending a hand 

Mutual masturbation isn’t just performing self-love together, it’s lending a helping hand! Introduce an exciting new element to your lovemaking by assisting your partner in a very sexy activity. ´

#6: Penetration isn’t everything 

Masturbating together is a great way to take the pressure off feeling like you always have to have penetrative sex. It’s also especially awesome for LGBTQIA couples who want to connect sexually in ways that don’t involve traditional ‘P in V’ sex. 

So… why not trying mutual masturbation next time? If you want to extend your experience together, we have some suitable toys:

We-Vibe Melt

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We-Vibe Vector

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Extends the experience of mutual masturbation with anal stimulation: the Vector by We-Vibe is perfect for this. The toy stimulates not only the anal region, but also the perineum.

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Womanizer DUOWomanizer DUO

The Womanizer DUO is a real all-rounder. It stimulateshttps://we-vibe.com/vector?utm_source=O%20Diaries&utm_medium=article&utm_content=mutual%20masturbation_ENG the G-Spot region called as well as the clitoral region – with 12 intensity levels and 12 vibration modes. For gigantic orgasms.

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Author: Nadia Bokody

Photo by Arren Mills on Unsplash


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