Author

Nadia Bokody is a sex-positive journalist and media commentator with a passion for empowering women in their sexuality, relationships and mental health. She’s also a regular columnist for titles including HuffPost, Mamamia, Thought Cataloug, The Sun, News.com.au, The Washington Post and more, and a regular sexpert on TV and radio shows including Triple M’s The Grill Team and Channel 7’s The Morning Show. Her relatable, comedic sex-ed YouTube channel has exploded in growth, amassing over 110,000 subscribers in just three months. When she’s not talking about sex or trialing the latest and greatest adult toys, she can be found running global women’s website, SHESAID.com.

How to become a sexually empowered woman

Here’s a challenge: define ‘sexy’. What does it mean to be sexy? What makes us label some people ‘sexy’, and not others? Our author Nadia Bokody has a clear opinion: If you answered by describing a particular aesthetic, you’re wrong. To be sexy is a question of sexual self-empowerment…

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Sexting: How To Sext

One thing is for sure: Sexting is also a powerful way to reignite your sexual intimacy in a relationship where the sex may have flatlined.

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6 Surprising benefits of mutual masturbation

Sure, playing alone is fun. But why play alone when you an invite your partner to join the fun? Mutual masturbation is one of the most beneficial activities for your relationship and your intimacy. Just check out these six little-known benefits…

How to use a sex toy during foreplay with your partner

How to use a sex toy during foreplay with your partner

Especially during foreplay, many people in long-lasting relationships follow an established pattern. The foreplay is no longer really varied and adventurous. Our columnist Nadia Bokody recommends to reach for sex toys – and has a few product recommendations ready for you.

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How to have a squirting orgasm

Squirting orgasms can be a lot of fun. But they have a lot of stigma and misinformation attached to them. It’s the reason many women never attempt one….